Zero-Sum Game
- Gain of one team is offset by the loss of another team
- Winning or losing may be less important than the total relationship
- Negotiation and compromise may help everyone “win”
Consider the following questions:
- What happens when you compete against someone on your own team?
- Who wins when the football center competes with the quarterback?
- When is it important to win?
- How can we work together so that everyone wins?
Negative Competition
- Poisons interpersonal relationships
- Destroys organizational effectiveness
- Diverts time and energy
- Destroys goodwill
- Provokes anger, resentment and retaliation
How to Build Trust
- Always tell the truth
- Stick to your word
- Do what is right
- Do what you say you will do
- Share openly
- Put yourself “in the other’s shoes”
- Make decisions as a team
- Set goals as a team
- Work together to achieve those goals
- Look for common ground
- Be open-minded
- Ask for feedback and act upon it
Sheryl Tuchman, SPHR, SHRM-SCP
http://tools2succeed.com/
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