Boosting Engagement Through Employee Rewards and Recognition

Employee rewards and recognition aren't just a nice touch—they're a strategic tool for increasing engagement, productivity, and loyalty. When employees feel valued, they're more motivated to contribute to the organization’s success. Let’s explore how to make your rewards and recognition program effective:

1. Be Timely and Consistent

Recognize achievements as they happen. Timely recognition reinforces positive behaviors and shows employees that their efforts are appreciated. Whether it's a verbal acknowledgment in a meeting or a quick email shoutout, consistency matters.

2. Personalize Rewards

Generic rewards can fall flat. Tailor recognition to individual preferences—whether it's a gift card to a favorite café, a day off, or a handwritten thank-you note. Personalized rewards show that you understand and appreciate the person behind the role.

3. Align with Company Values

Recognition should go beyond rewarding performance; it should reinforce the organization’s core values. By aligning rewards with these values, you create a culture that promotes behaviors that are crucial to business success.

4. Make It Public

Don’t just keep the praise private. Sharing achievements publicly, whether within the company or on social media, not only makes employees feel valued but also inspires others.

5. Get Creative with Rewards

From team outings to surprise gifts, get creative! The more varied the rewards, the more fun and motivating they become. Remember, it’s not about the price tag but the thought behind it.

Implementing a robust rewards and recognition strategy can transform workplace culture, boost morale, and lead to better results. How does your organization celebrate success?

Until next time ...

 

Sheryl Tuchman, SPHR, SHRM-SCP

Emotional Intelligence: The Key to Personal and Professional Success

In today's fast-paced world, where communication and collaboration are key to success, emotional intelligence (EI) is emerging as a critical skill. It's no longer enough to be intellectually sharp or technically proficient—understanding and managing emotions, both your own and others', can significantly impact your personal and professional life.

So, what exactly is emotional intelligence, and why does it matter so much?

What is Emotional Intelligence?

Emotional intelligence refers to the ability to recognize, understand, manage, and influence emotions—your own and those of others. Psychologist Daniel Goleman, who popularized the concept, breaks EI into five core components:

1. Self-awareness: Understanding your own emotions and how they affect your thoughts and behavior.
2. Self-regulation: Managing or controlling your emotions, especially in stressful situations.
3. Motivation: Being driven by internal goals and maintaining a positive outlook, even in challenging times.
4. Empathy: Understanding and sharing the feelings of others.
5. Social Skills: Building and maintaining healthy relationships, resolving conflicts, and working well in teams.

Why Emotional Intelligence Matters

The ability to manage emotions effectively plays a pivotal role in how we communicate, solve problems, and navigate daily challenges. Here are some ways emotional intelligence can positively impact various aspects of life:

1. Improved Communication

People with high emotional intelligence are better communicators. By recognizing their own emotions and understanding others' feelings, they can navigate conversations with empathy and clarity. This leads to more productive interactions and stronger relationships.

2. Stronger Relationships

Empathy is at the heart of EI. When you're able to tune into how others feel, you can build trust, resolve conflicts, and create deeper connections—whether at home or in the workplace.

3. Stress and Conflict Management

Life is full of stressful moments, but emotional intelligence helps you handle these situations with poise. Instead of reacting impulsively, you can manage your emotions and respond thoughtfully, which leads to better conflict resolution and less stress overall.

4. Leadership and Teamwork

Great leaders often have high emotional intelligence. They're able to inspire, motivate, and lead their teams with understanding and compassion. In team settings, EI enhances collaboration, helping groups work cohesively toward shared goals.

5. Personal Growth

Self-awareness is a cornerstone of emotional intelligence, and with it comes the opportunity for personal development. Understanding your own strengths and weaknesses allows you to grow, make better decisions, and achieve your goals more effectively.

How to Develop Emotional Intelligence

The good news is that emotional intelligence is not fixed—you can improve it over time with practice and awareness. Here are a few ways to start developing your EI:

• Practice mindfulness: Being mindful of your emotions can help you better understand what triggers certain feelings and how to manage them.
• Empathy exercises: Try putting yourself in others' shoes more often. Actively listen to their concerns, and respond with understanding.
• Manage stress: Learn relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing or meditation, to manage stress before it spirals.
• Seek feedback: Ask trusted friends or colleagues for feedback on how you handle emotions in certain situations. Use their insights to grow.

Conclusion

Emotional intelligence is more than a soft skill—it's an essential tool for building stronger relationships, handling stress, and fostering personal and professional success. By understanding and managing emotions effectively, you can not only navigate challenges more easily but also become a better communicator, leader, and team player.

Start small, practice empathy, and watch how emotional intelligence transforms your interactions and your life!

Until next time ...

 

Sheryl Tuchman, SPHR, SHRM-SCP

The Essential Journey of Leadership Development

Leadership development is more than a corporate buzzword; it's the cornerstone of building resilient, innovative, and future-ready organizations. Developing leaders is an ongoing process that equips individuals with the skills, mindset, and emotional intelligence needed to inspire and guide teams in a fast-evolving business landscape.

At its core, leadership development begins with self-awareness. Great leaders must understand their own strengths, weaknesses, and values. This self-knowledge helps them build trust and authenticity within their teams. Programs focused on leadership often emphasize emotional intelligence, communication, and decision-making skills, ensuring leaders can manage both tasks and relationships effectively.

Another critical aspect is adaptability. In today’s complex and unpredictable world, leaders must be agile, able to pivot in response to new challenges, whether they be technological shifts, market changes, or crises. Leadership training that includes scenario planning, resilience building, and creative problem-solving enables future leaders to thrive amidst uncertainty.

Leadership development is also about fostering a culture of continuous learning. Leaders who encourage feedback and invest in their own growth set an example for their teams, cultivating a work environment where learning is valued. Moreover, mentoring and coaching are powerful tools in shaping leadership potential, offering personalized guidance and real-world insights.

In short, effective leadership development is not a one-size-fits-all approach but a personalized, evolving journey. By focusing on self-awareness, adaptability, and continuous learning, organizations can cultivate leaders who are prepared to navigate challenges and drive sustained success.

Leadership is a journey, not a destination—and investing in leadership development ensures that the path ahead is one of growth, innovation, and impact.

Until next time ...

 

Sheryl Tuchman, SPHR, SHRM-SCP

More Coping Strategies for Anxiety

Creating a “Me” Place

When we are feeling stressed or overwhelmed, it is important that we have a place we can go that is just for us-- a "me" place. Find a spot where you can take a few minutes to think to yourself. You can be yourself in this special place and release any pent-up feelings. Customize your space with things that make you feel special and calm such as music, artwork, candles, etc.

Establish Attainable Goals

Setting goals is always a good practice, and it is especially true when coping with our anxiety. We want to ensure, however, that our goals are not so large and daunting that we don't get started. Focus on goals that you can realistically achieve, and set attainable expectations. Start with small steps, such as changing the way you view a situation or how you react to something. Keep in mind that there are some things you cannot change, but you can change how you react to them.

3-3-3 Rule

When life around you becomes overwhelming, or you feel as though a panic attack is about to happen, it may seem impossible to impeder these feelings. The "3-3-3 Rule" is a helpful mental trick that brings you back to the moment and settles your mind. This practice is a simple way to change your focus by concentrating on sight, sound and touch. First, look at your surroundings and name 3 physical objects that you see. Focus on specific details of these objects. Next, listen to your environment: name 3 sounds that you hear. Finally, focus your attention on your body, and move 3 body parts, such as wiggling your fingers and toes or moving your head to one side. 

Talk With Friends and Family

Anxiety can be overwhelming and make us feel like we are alone. Speaking with family and friends about anxieties and how they make us feel is a great way of gaining support and feeling better about our problems. It is better to seek external support from loved ones than internalizing negative feelings that affect our everyday lives. Choose those who will offer support and advice. You may find that someone suffers from the same problem or something very similar.

Get Enough Sleep

We often overlook the benefits of a good night’s sleep. Without sufficient, restful sleep each night, our mind does not have the strength or ability to keep up with our coping strategies.

Eating Well and Exercise

When we eat well, we are fortifying our body to help deal with stress and anxiety. In addition, getting regular exercise helps improve our mental clarity and concentration. Exercise has even been proven to help anxiety over time since it helps us improve focus and our ability to deal with stressful situations that can increase our heart rates.  

Breathing Exercises

Your whole body is affected by the way you breathe. Breathing exercises are great coping mechanisms for anxiety as they encourage healthy breathing and breath control. These exercises will send messages to your brain to relax as well as give your organs an oxygen boost. Breathing exercises such as deep breathing or box breathing (https://www.webmd.com/balance/what-is-box-breathing) are simple and quick techniques that can be done anywhere and at any time. 

Acknowledge the Situation

There is a common belief that if we ignore our anxieties, they will go away. It is critical to face the truth and acknowledge the problem. Recognizing that anxieties are present is the first step toward resolving the problem and feeling better. Anxiety will only continue to linger and intensify if it is not addressed.

Until next time ...

 

Sheryl Tuchman, SPHR, SHRM-SCP

Anxiety - Physical Symptoms and Coping Strategies

Physical Symptoms

Anxiety is more than just a feeling; it can be a physical ailment. It does not only affect us emotionally and cause various mental symptoms, but it can also cause a long list of physical symptoms that can harm us. Physical symptoms accompanied by anxiety are often mistaken for some other form of physical illness which can create a dangerous circle of continuous worry over medical concerns. In order to seek proper treatment for anxiety disorders, it is essential to recognize the physical symptoms as well. Common physical symptoms of anxiety disorders include headaches, nausea, increased heart rate, and muscle cramps.

Coping Strategies

Once we have identified what type of anxiety problems we may be facing, we can focus on how to cope with them and keep them from controlling our everyday life. Coping strategies for anxiety are lifestyle changes that are designed to help you take control, and better manage your anxiety. Since anxiety and its symptoms will affect everyone differently, so too will the strategies for coping with anxiety. It is best to find what coping strategies work with you. Luckily, there are many treatments, therapies and self-help strategies available to the public that can be customized to our needs.

Keeping a Journal

Keeping a journal is a constructive way to channel feelings of stress or anxiety into more productive and healthy thoughts. Writing in a journal allows a person to write freely and openly without having fear of being judged or criticized, as it will not be seen by anyone. It is a place to let go of negativity, explore your fears, and manage your stress. Your goals, thoughts, and dreams can also be communicated in your personal diary or journal. When you have a place to keep your thoughts, life can feel a little more manageable.

Power of Positive Thinking

Sometimes our anxieties can get the best of us simply because we let them by welcoming in the negative thoughts they bring with them. But when we engage in positive thinking and use words of encouragement, we can change how our anxieties affect us. Phrases such as “I’m going to faint!” and “I can’t do it!” can negatively affect how we handle a certain situation or problem and can make anxieties worse. To counteract these thoughts, we can focus on calming and soothing positive thoughts that can make us feel better about ourselves and whatever situation we have to face. By putting a stop to thoughts that can lead to anxiety or stress and replacing them with positive and encouraging thoughts, we are conditioning ourselves to permanently adapt our brain to this type of behavior and improving the way we handle difficult situations.

Sample positive thinking phrases:

• “I can do this.”

• “These feelings may be uncomfortable, but they won’t last.”

• “I will not fail and others will see my success.”

• “My anxiety cannot make me lose control.”

 Until next time ...

 

Sheryl Tuchman, SPHR, SHRM-SCP

Managing Workplace Anxiety

Anxiety is a normal reaction characterized by feelings of fear or apprehension. While it is normal to have some fear or feel out of place at work occasionally, it can become a serious problem when the anxiety becomes unmanageable and keeps you from performing your everyday activities. Anxiety can have a negative impact on your quality of work, work performance, and affect your relationships with colleagues. Identifying your workplace anxiety and learning powerful coping strategies will help you to work with your anxiety rather than against it.

Types of Anxiety

We all react to stressful situations in different ways. It’s a normal biological reaction to experience anxiety or fear when faced with stressful situations, such as taking a test or making a very important decision. However, long-lasting feelings of extreme anxiety that interfere with our daily activities may be indicative of an anxiety disorder. Anxiety cannot be defined as one isolated condition. It has many faces and can have hundreds of symptoms. Before you can begin to understand and identify any type of anxiety, it is important to know the common symptoms and characteristics of various disorders.

Generalized Anxiety Disorder

Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) is the most common type of anxiety and is usually defined as a constant state of tension and panic. People who suffer from GAD find it difficult to control their worry most days. Everyday circumstances, such as job security, health, or finances may cause uncontrollable worry, dominating an individual’s thinking. The source of the anxiety may not always be identified, making it difficult to resolve the problem. 

Characteristics of GAD include:

• Difficulty focusing, sleeping or concentrating
• Constant restlessness, irritation or edginess
• Feeling tired or having low energy levels
• Tense or clenched muscles

Social Anxiety

Social anxiety, also known as social phobia, is a fear of crowds or public situations, feeling it will lead to public scrutiny or embarrassment. Fear can range from simply eating in public to being in a large crowd in a store. At work, people with social anxiety may have trouble socializing or even participating in meetings. Social anxiety affects many individuals, causing them to isolate and feel alone. Although it is difficult to escape these fears, social anxiety symptoms can be managed and responsive to treatment.

Characteristics of social anxiety include:

• Extreme fear of unfamiliar situations and people
• Feeling overwhelmed with anxiety when in social situations
• Fearful of being judged or watched by other people
• Unable to face social situations on your own

Panic Disorder

Panic disorder is a type of anxiety disorder characterized by recurrent and unexpected attacks of intense anxiety or fear. Panic attacks prohibit the feeling of having control and cause sudden, debilitating symptoms, such as shallow breathing, sweating, increased heart rate, and physical pain. It is natural to have feelings of panic from dangerous or stressful situations. However, with panic disorders, feelings of fear can happen without warning. Identifying panic disorder and recognizing the symptoms associated with it can help individuals to better manage their symptoms and work with the disorder. 

Characteristics of panic disorder include:

• Feelings of doom or losing control
• Stomach pains, dizziness or even fainting
• Overwhelming sense of fear, usually irrational
• Sudden heart palpitations or excessive sweating

Phobias

Phobias are common types of anxiety and generally focus on one thing or situation, such as a fear of spiders or a fear of public speaking. People who suffer from certain phobias begin to have an overwhelming feeling of fear and anxiety when they are faced with their phobia and can usually return to a normal state once the item or situation has been resolved. Generally, these phobias don’t interfere with our everyday lives since we may not actually have to encounter these fears on a regular basis. Nonetheless, phobias that can occur at work, such as a phobia of public speaking or a fear of crowded rooms, should be addressed right away since they can hinder our ability to function normally on the job.

Characteristics of phobias include:

• Fear is normally focused on one thing
• Fear is usually instantaneous
• Inability to control fears, even after facing the fear itself
• Feelings subside when phobia has passed or has been avoided

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is an anxiety disorder that involves patterns of unwanted obsessions or fears that may lead you to perform repetitive behaviors. Individuals with OCD will feel the need to perform certain rituals or compulsive acts to relieve feelings of anxiety. With this relief being only temporary, it can cause significant distress to those living with OCD, especially within the workplace. 

Characteristics of obsessive-compulsive disorder include:

• Fear of being contaminated and/or the compulsion to clean
• Continuously checking items, such as locks, ovens or alarm systems
• Needing symmetry and order; requiring things to be aligned in a certain way
• Fear of harming yourself or others, either intentionally or unintentionally

Until next time ...

 

Sheryl Tuchman, SPHR, SHRM-SCP

What to Do When You Feel Overwhelmed

Everyone becomes overwhelmed. It is important, however, not to let your feelings control your actions. 

There are steps to take whenever you feel overwhelmed that will make it easier to regain focus.

Regain Focus:

• Stop: Slow down before you panic and try to keep perspective. Take a moment to relax and think when you are overwhelmed.
• Take Breaks: Plan to take a five-minute break for every hour of work. Use the time to try relaxation techniques.
• Break down tasks: Break tasks into smaller steps.

Sleep: 

Get enough rest to ensure you can think critically.

Until next time ...

 

Sheryl Tuchman, SPHR, SHRM-SCP